I’m not sure if yall know it, but most of us sistas are walking around with Craig and ‘Nem in our wombs. And the brothas got Keisha ‘nem on their jocks(we’ll deal with them in a later blog). So, yeah I said it, Craig and ‘Nem! These are the dudes we let hit it and release their energy in our wombs and it is still affecting us—mostly negatively. Let me explain…
What’s in your womb? For starters energy. We all know that we are not just made up of flesh and bones. There is some kind of funky circuitry going on. You know this because if you’ve been walking on carpet for a long time and then touch someone, you can give them a little electric shock. Or we’ve all seen the hospital TV shows where they yell “clear!” and then send an electric pulse through a person’s heart to make them start breathing again. Well, all of that stuff is the funky little energy I’m talking about.
See when Craig and ‘nem hit it, they left their Funky Little Energy (FLE) in our wombs. When intercourse happens, a man doesn’t just deposit semen in the uterus, he also deposits a burst of energy used to create life. When this energy is not used to create life, it is stored in the uterus, which is why, in general, women still feel a connection to an ex-lover well after they are gone. This is why men are usually depleted and want to go to sleep after ejaculation because they just gave us all of their energy. It is also what makes women emotional; we are storing another person’s energy in our bodies.
This Funky Little Energy(FLE) left by Craig and ‘Nem can have us unknowingly attracting the same type of dude over and over again. It can also have us acting just like the dude who hurt us. For example, one of my Craig and ‘nem’s was a brotha who was just interested in a casual relationship. I’m embarrassed to say that I let this brotha hit it and I regretted it for a long time. He was sweating me hard before he hit it and then after he hit it, he couldn’t find the strength to call me his girlfriend--classic. I became jealous and insecure. I felt used and unappreciated. But it strengthened me because I had never had this type of experience before. But, I turned right around and did the same thing not to another man in a relationship but a friend of mine who helped me with starting my business and when the business opened, I dissed her. She became jealous and insecure, felt used and unappreciated and I was the one who couldn’t open my mouth to claim her for the role she wanted in the business. I didn’t do it intentionally but no matter, I did it. Now I can go on blaming Craig and ‘nem for this but what is more valuable was the realization of how this Funky Little Energy works in my womb.
You feeling me? Then, drop something on us in the blog. To get the full story of my adventures with Craig and ‘nem click here to order the book Whatz in Your Womb? and visit us on the web at http://www.whatzinyourwomb.com/.
What’s in your womb? For starters energy. We all know that we are not just made up of flesh and bones. There is some kind of funky circuitry going on. You know this because if you’ve been walking on carpet for a long time and then touch someone, you can give them a little electric shock. Or we’ve all seen the hospital TV shows where they yell “clear!” and then send an electric pulse through a person’s heart to make them start breathing again. Well, all of that stuff is the funky little energy I’m talking about.
See when Craig and ‘nem hit it, they left their Funky Little Energy (FLE) in our wombs. When intercourse happens, a man doesn’t just deposit semen in the uterus, he also deposits a burst of energy used to create life. When this energy is not used to create life, it is stored in the uterus, which is why, in general, women still feel a connection to an ex-lover well after they are gone. This is why men are usually depleted and want to go to sleep after ejaculation because they just gave us all of their energy. It is also what makes women emotional; we are storing another person’s energy in our bodies.
This Funky Little Energy(FLE) left by Craig and ‘Nem can have us unknowingly attracting the same type of dude over and over again. It can also have us acting just like the dude who hurt us. For example, one of my Craig and ‘nem’s was a brotha who was just interested in a casual relationship. I’m embarrassed to say that I let this brotha hit it and I regretted it for a long time. He was sweating me hard before he hit it and then after he hit it, he couldn’t find the strength to call me his girlfriend--classic. I became jealous and insecure. I felt used and unappreciated. But it strengthened me because I had never had this type of experience before. But, I turned right around and did the same thing not to another man in a relationship but a friend of mine who helped me with starting my business and when the business opened, I dissed her. She became jealous and insecure, felt used and unappreciated and I was the one who couldn’t open my mouth to claim her for the role she wanted in the business. I didn’t do it intentionally but no matter, I did it. Now I can go on blaming Craig and ‘nem for this but what is more valuable was the realization of how this Funky Little Energy works in my womb.
You feeling me? Then, drop something on us in the blog. To get the full story of my adventures with Craig and ‘nem click here to order the book Whatz in Your Womb? and visit us on the web at http://www.whatzinyourwomb.com/.
Before I had knowledge of self I allowed myself to to be relatively loose and unrestricted with my energy towards sisters. I remember having sex with one sister because she just kept sweating me and I wanted to get it over with. I avoided her weekend after weekend when I had my own apartment in ATL until one time she caught me with my guard down. I answered the phone and responded to the question, "what are you into tonight?", and I foolishly said, "nothing". She then invited herself over. She was known to be loose herself and I had no interest in her spiritually but I still allowed her to come over, lay in my bed and eventually take off her clothes. It was so bad of an experience I wanted to release my uninterested energy into my condom as quickly as possible with no regard for what she might say about my quick release. I went to sleep after and she got up the next morning and went home. I never heard from her again and I was glad. I am not proud of the way I got Keisha and 'nem off my jock but I did. (no disrespect to the Keishas' out there). I am proud to say that I had another sister some years later who was a beautiful Nigerian sister who thought she was supposed to give up her sexual energy to be appreciated by Craig and 'nem. She needed to stay over my place one night and she thought we were going to have sex. I had to talk her off the ledge explaining that it is unacceptable for her to give up that energy for self-esteem sake. She wanted me to like her and she was accustomed to sex triggering one's interest. I was 'not the one' any longer. We slept in the same bed but it was a queen size and there was no activity at all, my choice. I learned to honor my self and help sisters honor themselves. I spent the next 10 years building on this with brothers and sisters whenever the opportunity presented itself. I give thanks for Whatz in your Womb! and this forum.
ReplyDeleteWow! That's deep. This is the kind of feedback we need to hear from the brothas. Hopefully, these sistas have or are recovering from the experience. I think you were straight "Craig and 'Nem" on the first sista but on the second one you showed her how "Craig and 'nem" were working on her energy and thought processes. I bet she remembers the experience she had with you. It may have changed how she dealt with men from that point forward. You let her know that all men are not "Craig and 'nem". That's What's up.
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